Building Relationships Over Drinks
As much of the US is freezing, snowy or below normal temperatures, many of us are looking for ways to stay cozy and warm. One of the things that often come to mind is a warm beverage to drink – that perfect go-to drink that brings us warmth, comfort, and joy. But besides serving as a mood lifter, did you know that your favorite drinks can also help you build and strengthen relationships?
We all have that one drink that we always reach out to when we need a little pick-me-up. It could be a classic hot chocolate, a steaming cup of tea, or a frothy latte – whatever it is, it’s your go-to drink. But have you ever stopped to think why you’re drawn to that drink in particular? For many of us, our go-to drink is connected to a memory or experience that brings us comfort and happiness.
Perhaps you first tasted your go-to drink at a cozy café with a friend or relative. Maybe it was your mom’s signature hot cocoa or your best friend’s favorite tea. Whoever introduced you to that drink might have played a role in shaping your taste preferences and your relationship with that beverage.
Maybe it’s the warmth of the drink in your hands that makes you love it, or the sweet, creamy taste that gives you a sense of pleasure. Whatever the reason may be, your go-to drink probably has some positive emotional associations for you that you can tap into.
Asking for help can be challenging, especially when we feel vulnerable or scared. But when we have relationships built on trust and mutual support, asking for help becomes easier and less daunting. Think about the last time you asked for help – was it with a friend, family member, or colleague? What did you gain from that exchange, and how did the other person respond?
Not everyone we know is equally equipped to offer help – some people are better listeners, while others might be more action-oriented. Think about who you usually turn to for different kinds of help – do you have a go-to person for emotional support, someone else for professional advice, and yet another person for practical help with tasks or errands?
Some people feel comfortable asking for help regularly, while others might be more reluctant to do so. Think about your own habits around seeking help – are you someone who tends to bottle up problems and soldier on alone, or do you reach out to others for support when you need it?
In conclusion, building relationships over drinks can be a great way to create a support system that makes asking for help easier. By identifying our go-to drinks and the reasons why we love them, we can tap into the positive emotions they generate, and use them to build stronger connections with others. When we know who to ask for help, when to do it, and why we need it, we can navigate life’s challenges with greater ease and resilience. So, grab your go-to drink and reach out to someone you trust – together, you can make #2024 the best year yet!
